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	<title>Sexologie Magazine! &#187; Stephen Kastner</title>
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		<title>The Scent of Arousal &#8211; Licorice, Lavender and Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 16:16:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Kastner</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[A Sex Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[black licorice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dr. Alan R. Hirsch]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dr. Jason Gruss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Men: if you want to get your lady in the mood, skip the chemically-infused cologne or pesticide-laden roses, and find some black licorice instead,&#8221; says naturalist blogger Laurel House, in a recent Planet Green post. &#8220;Yes, the scent of the natural botanical is said to stimulate a woman’s libido more than any other aroma.&#8221;
She gathered [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Men: if you want to get your lady in the mood, skip the chemically-infused cologne or pesticide-laden roses, and find some <strong>black licorice</strong> instead,&#8221; says naturalist blogger <strong>Laurel House</strong>, in <a href="http://www.care2.com/greenliving/the-sexiest-scent-for-women.html" target="_blank">a recent Planet Green post</a>. &#8220;Yes, the scent of the natural botanical is said to stimulate a woman’s libido more than any other aroma.&#8221;</p>
<div id="attachment_520" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 258px"><img class="size-full wp-image-520" title="licorice" src="http://sexologie.us/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/licorice.jpg" alt="Licorice - Glycyrrhiza glabra" width="248" height="400" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Licorice - Glycyrrhiza glabra</p></div>
<p>She gathered her findings from a study, conducted by <strong>Dr. Alan R. Hirsch</strong>, neurological director of the <a href="http://www.smellandtaste.org/" target="_blank">Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation</a> in Chicago, IL.</p>
<p>&#8220;One of his studies reveals that women who were exposed to the scent of licorice had a 13 percent increase in bloodflow to their sexual organs compared to a 1 percent reduction from the scent of men’s cologne,&#8221; Laurel explains. &#8220;Though the exact reason that licorice arouses women is unclear, Hirsch believes that it is either an unexplained chemical reaction in the brain or olfactory-evoked nostalgia.&#8221;</p>
<p>It seems that Dr. Hirsch is fond of measuring changes in blood flow to the sex organs. He and colleague <strong>Dr. Jason Gruss</strong> also initiated <a href="http://www.smellandtaste.org/index.cfm?action=research.sexual" target="_blank">a recent study</a> to investigate &#8220;the impact of ambient olfactory stimuli upon sexual response in the human male.&#8221;</p>
<p>Thirty-one men, aged 18 to 64 years, were tested. Dr. Hirsch selected 24 different odorants for the study. In addition, six combinations of two of the most well-liked of these were also chosen. The effects of the 30 odors on penile blood flow were assessed by comparing a subject’s brachial penile index while wearing an odorized mask to his average index while wearing an unodorized mask. This was done for each subject for each odor.</p>
<p>After being attached to a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plethysmograph" target="_blank">penile plethysmograph</a> (which measures blood flow), three minutes were allowed for acclimation. Then a blank, nonodorized mask was applied for one minute while a baseline brachial penile index was recorded. The combined odor of <strong>lavender and pumpkin pie </strong>had the greatest effect, increasing median penile blood flow by 40%. Next in effectiveness was the combination of <strong>black licorice and doughnut</strong>, which increased arousal by 31.5%. The older men tended to respond strongly to vanilla.</p>
<p>The doctors offer several explanations, but the direct connection between odors and sexual response cannot be denied:  &#8220;The odors may also act neurophysiologically. A direct pathway connects the olfactory bulb to the septal nucleus, which in turn induces blood flow and erection.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong><span>Increase in Penile Blood Flow Produced by Top 10 Odors in 31 Male Volunteers</span></strong></p>
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<td width="50%" align="left" valign="top"><strong>Odor or odor combination</strong>Lavender and pumpkin pie<br />
Doughnut &amp; black licorice<br />
Pumpkin pie &amp; doughnut<br />
Orange<br />
Lavender &amp; doughnut<br />
Black licorice and cola<br />
Black licorice<br />
Doughnut &amp; cola<br />
Lily of the valley<br />
Buttered popcorn</td>
<td align="left" valign="top"><strong>Average Increase</strong>40%<br />
31.5%<br />
20%<br />
19.5%<br />
18%<br />
13%<br />
13%<br />
12.5%<br />
11%<br />
9%</td>
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		<title>A Kinetic Kinsey Report&#8230; Top Twitter Hash Tags Today #beforesex #duringsex #aftersex</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 17:27:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Kastner</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[A Sex Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Literature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Multi-media]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[#aftersex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[#beforesex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[#duringsex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[50 Worst Books of the Twentieth Century]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dr. Alfred Kinsey]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[may be considered as part of the most successful and influential scientific books of the 20th century.]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Kinsey Reports]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Twitter]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[which together sold three-quarters of a million copies and were translated in thirteen languages]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[If only Dr. Alfred Kinsey were alive today&#8230; taking notes on Twitter
I just glanced at my &#8220;Trends of Twitter&#8221; Google widget and noticed something new. Maybe I just never paid attention, but that seems hard to imagine. Nonetheless, today the top of the Twitterverse is dominated by the following sexual timeline hash tags: #beforesex, #duringsex [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>If only Dr. Alfred Kinsey were alive today&#8230; taking notes on Twitter</h3>
<div id="attachment_507" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 210px"><img class="size-full wp-image-507" title="kinsey" src="http://sexologie.us/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/kinsey.jpg" alt="Alfred Charles Kinsey (June 23, 1894 – August 25, 1956)" width="200" height="259" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Alfred Charles Kinsey (June 23, 1894 – August 25, 1956)</p></div>
<p>I just glanced at my &#8220;Trends of Twitter&#8221; Google widget and noticed something new. Maybe I just never paid attention, but that seems hard to imagine. Nonetheless, today the top of the Twitterverse is dominated by the following sexual timeline hash tags: <a href="http://search.twitter.com/search?q=%23beforesex" target="_blank">#beforesex</a>, <a href="http://search.twitter.com/search?q=%23duringsex" target="_blank">#duringsex</a> and <a href="http://search.twitter.com/search?q=%23aftersex" target="_blank">#aftersex</a>.</p>
<p>In 1948 and 1953 the <strong>Kinsey Reports</strong> on male and female sexual behavior shocked the nation by talking frankly and for the first time about a subject that had been taboo up until they broke the ice. The greatest controversy surrounded the creation of the Kinsey Scale, that categorized sexual behavior from 0 to 6, with 0 being completely heterosexual and 6 completely homosexual.</p>
<p>Kinsey said, &#8220;Males do not represent two discrete populations, heterosexual and homosexual. The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats. It is a fundamental of taxonomy that nature rarely deals with discrete categories&#8230; The living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects.&#8221;</p>
<p>The findings revealed, &#8220;11.6% of white males aged 20–35 were given a rating of 3 (Equally heterosexual and homosexual &#8211; bisexual) for this period of their lives. 7% of single females aged 20–35 and 4% of previously married females aged 20–35 were given a rating of 3 for this period of their lives.&#8221;</p>
<p>Kinsey further inflamed debate with his findings that an estimated 50% of all married males had some extramarital experience at some time during their married lives and 26% of females had extramarital sex by their forties.</p>
<p>Despite the efforts by many different conservative family-values and religious groups to discredit the Reports, together they have sold more than three-quarters of a million copies and have been translated into thirteen languages. Many people consider them to be among the most successful and influential scientific books of the 20th century. Au contraire, <em>Sexual Behavior in the Human Male</em> has been on two conservative lists of the worst books of modern times. It was #3 on the conservative Intercollegiate Studies Institute&#8217;s <strong>50 Worst Books of the Twentieth Century</strong>.</p>
<p>Much of the criticism has to do with the sampling methods and the groups that Kinsey utilized for his studies. If only he could see the sampling data available on Twitter&#8230;</p>
<div id="attachment_506" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 610px"><img class="size-full wp-image-506" title="twitter-during" src="http://sexologie.us/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/twitter-during.jpg" alt="Twitter on Viagra..." width="600" height="564" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Twitter on Viagra...</p></div>
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		<title>Introducing Karen Salmansohn, Teleology, Aristotle, BDNF and a 30-Day Plan to Change Your Love Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 18:21:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Kastner</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Learning Tree]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Aristotle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[BDNF]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dr. John J. Ratey]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Karen Salmansohn]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[ 
Karen Salmansohn is a best-selling author with over 1 million books sold. Her goal: wake up sleepy minds, hearts and spirits&#8230; spread positive propaganda throughout the land. She&#8217;s known for presenting dynamic keynote seminars (Motorola, Unilever, Soho House, etc&#8230;) and is a recognized expert on happiness (in career, love and life) on The Today [...]]]></description>
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<div class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 130px"><strong><strong><img class=" " src="http://www.notsalmon.com/wp-content/uploads/head_shot3.jpg" alt="Karen Salmanson" width="120" height="120" /></strong></strong><p class="wp-caption-text">Karen Salmansohn</p></div>
<p><strong>Karen Salmansohn</strong> is a best-selling author with over 1 million books sold. Her goal: wake up sleepy minds, hearts and spirits&#8230; spread positive propaganda throughout the land. She&#8217;s known for presenting dynamic keynote seminars (Motorola, Unilever, Soho House, etc&#8230;) and is a recognized expert on happiness (in career, love and life) on The Today Show, The View, CNN, CNBC, WB, ABC &#8211; pick a set of letters! Plus she&#8217;s been in The NY Times, Business Week, Chicago Tribune, Self, Cosmo, In-Style, US, People, Fast Company, LA Times, Phila. Inquirer, etc&#8230;</p>
<p>Today Karen is launching a 30-day blog post campaign at her <a href="http://notsalmon.com/" target="_blank"><strong>NotSalmon.com</strong> &#8211; Self Help for People Who Wouldn&#8217;t be Caught Dead Reading Self Help</a>.</p>
<p>&#8220;Right now I will take up Aristotle’s advice&#8230; &#8221; says Karen. &#8220;<strong><em>To begin with your final purpose in mind</em>,</strong> or what Aristotle calls your &#8216;teleology&#8217; and clearly state <em>my</em> <strong>teleology</strong> for these next 30 days on this blog. I want to give you techniques to break bad relationship patterns for good so you can snag a happily ever after love future.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://notsalmon.com/2009/09/14/seeing-is-not-always-believing-however-seeding-is-believing-what-you-seed-is-what-you-get/" target="_blank">Her first article</a> in the 30-day series, posted today covers a lot of ground, but in it she manages to link brain change, exercise, meditation, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kaizen" target="_blank">Kaizen visualization</a> and positive affirmation with the likes of Woody Allen and a plan to send e-mail to yourself.</p>
<p>Karen explains, &#8220;Brain science says it takes 30 days to change a habit &#8211; and change neural pathways! When you change your daily thinking to support love/joy, your negative neural pathways shrink and positive neural pathways widen.&#8221;</p>
<p>Her first thought exercise will only take a total of 15 minutes out of your day, but that small investment could change your entire life&#8230; and it gets even better when you combine it with physical exercise.</p>
<p>&#8220;I’ve found that when I merge this &#8216;thought exercise&#8217; with &#8216;physical&#8217;  exercise I get even more positive results, even more quickly,&#8221; says Salmansohn. &#8220;I got this  technique from Tony Robbins — and I gotta say, I’ve personally found  that exercising while I’m thinking positive thoughts has truly helped me in speeding up getting what I want!&#8221;</p>
<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41YGKlqiD8L._AA75_.jpg" alt="" width="75" height="75" />Current brain theory confirms the fact that your brain is continually evolving and that cardio-vascular exercise greatly facilitates the formation of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brain-derived_neurotrophic_factor" target="_blank">BDNF</a>.  In <strong><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0316113506?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=designwise&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0316113506">Spark: The Revolutionary New Science of Exercise and the Brain</a></strong><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=designwise&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0316113506" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />, Dr. John J. Ratey validates the  mind-body connection, presenting some startling research that proves that exercise is one of the very best defenses against everything from depression to ADD to addiction to aggression to menopause to Alzheimer&#8217;s. He describes how brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), a protein that acts on certain neurons of the central nervous system and the peripheral nervous system, helps to support the survival of existing neurons and <strong>encourages the growth and differentiation of new neurons and synapses</strong>.</p>
<p>The link between body, mind and spirit is fundamental to Karen&#8217;s entire premise. She introduces the concept of linking thought to action with  a brief discussion of the Japanese practice of Kaizen, &#8220;&#8230;celebrat(ing) the joy of doing small tasks that, over time add up to the joy of experiencing large life changes.&#8221;</p>
<p>Toyota manufacturing co-opted the principle of Kaizen (Japanese for improvement) applying the concept to its assembly line workers who were empowered to stop the production line and consult with a supervisor if they saw a way to improve the flow of productivity. Doing the same repetitive physical motion all day could actually become enlightening rather than mind-numbing.</p>
<p>I like the Chinese interpretation of gai-shan (from Wikipedia below) even better.</p>
<ul>
<li>改 (&#8221;gǎi&#8221;) means &#8220;change&#8221; or &#8220;the action to correct&#8221;.</li>
<li>善 (&#8221;shàn&#8221;) means &#8220;good&#8221; or &#8220;benefit&#8221;. &#8220;Benefit&#8221; is more related to the Taoist or Buddhist philosophy, which gives the definition as the action that &#8216;benefits&#8217; the society but not one particular individual (i.e., multilateral improvement). In other words, one cannot benefit at another&#8217;s expense. The quality of benefit that is involved here should be sustained forever, in other words the &#8220;shan&#8221; is an act that truly benefits others.</li>
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<p>The Chinese form of intentional thought exercise&#8230; (and my very first Web video, shot on location in Dali, Yunnan, China, 2007)<br />
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<p><img class="alignleft" style="border: 1px solid black; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51SiWjUcy2L._SL500_AA240_.jpg" alt="" width="240" height="240" />Check out Karen Salmansohn&#8217;s latest book: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/084370926X?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=designwise&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=084370926X">Prince Harming Syndrome: Break Bad Relationship Patterns for Good—5 Essentials for Finding True Love (and they&#8217;re not what you think)</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=designwise&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=084370926X" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />.</p>
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		<title>Fashion magazines are dead&#8230; Long live fashion magazines!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 22:25:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Kastner</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[A Sex Blog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fashionising.com]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lily Cole]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Natalia Vodianova]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Playboy France]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Tiiu Kuik]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Who better to lead the way in lifting sexuality from the depths of hard core porn to the heights of eros and the sacred than the fashion industry&#8230; 
It started gaining steam last month with the appearance Tiiu Kuik in Marie Claire&#8217;s May 2009 feature (Pace dei Sensi or Peace of the Senses), uncovered quite [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><em>Who better to lead the way in lifting sexuality from the depths of hard core porn to the heights of eros and the sacred than the fashion industry&#8230; </em></h3>
<div class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 582px"><a href="http://www.fashionising.com/diary/p--Marie-Claire-Italy-May-2009-Pace-dei-Sensi-Tiiu-Kuik-2843-41863.html"><img src="http://www.fashionisingpictures.net/photoshoots/tiiubw3.jpg" alt="Tiiu Kuik" width="572" height="468" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Tiiu Kuik</p></div>
<p>It started gaining steam last month with the appearance <strong>Tiiu Kuik</strong> in Marie Claire&#8217;s May 2009 feature (<em>Pace dei Sensi</em> or Peace of the Senses), uncovered quite nicely in <a href="http://www.fashionising.com/diary/b--Nudity-another-fashion-shoot-without-the-fashion-1756.html" target="_blank"><strong>Nudity: another fashion shoot without the fashion</strong></a> by<strong> Fashionising.com</strong>. They note a growing trend in <a href="http://www.fashionising.com/blogs/" target="_blank">Blogs</a> &gt; <a href="http://www.fashionising.com/diary/blog--fashion-diary-0-1.html" target="_blank">Fashion Diary</a> &gt; <a href="http://www.fashionising.com/diary/blog--Photo-Shoots-36-1.html" target="_blank">Fashion Photo Shoots</a> on the lovely, lithe, <strong><a href="http://www.fashionising.com/diary/b--Tiiu-Kuik-naked-for-Marie-Claire-Italia-again-1810.html" target="_blank">Tiiu Kuik naked for Marie Claire Italia &#8211; again</a></strong>.</p>
<p>A <a href="http://www.fashionising.com/diary/b--Natalia-Vodianovas-naked-cover-for-Vogue-UK-1796.html" target="_blank">naked <strong>Natalia Vodianova</strong></a> graces the cover of Vogue UK&#8217;s June 2009 issue&#8230; led by the fashion-transitioning of <a href="http://www.playboy.fr/" target="_blank"><strong>Playboy France</strong></a>, featuring  <strong>Lily Cole</strong> in the October 2008 cover and inside, a 14-page photos spread, &#8220;Sweet Lily&#8221; (inspired by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Histoire_de_Melody_Nelson" target="_blank">Serge Gainsbourg&#8217;s <em>Histoire de Melody Nelson</em> album</a>) with editorial by Xevi Muntane.</p>
<div class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 550px"><img src="http://www.fashionisingpictures.net/celebrity/GiseleBundchenNaked.jpg" alt="Gisele Bundchen" width="540" height="266" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Gisele Bundchen</p></div>
<p>&#8220;Supermodel <strong>Gisele Bundchen</strong> once vowed to never pose <strong><a href="http://www.fashionising.com/diary/b--Nudity-and-fashion-who-needs-clothes-1473.html" target="_blank">nude</a></strong>; &#8216;I would never be naked in a fashion picture.&#8217; So we have no idea what the pictures in <a href="http://www.fashionising.com/diary/s--Vanity-Fair-May-2009-Gisele-Gisele-Bundchen-2687-1.html" target="_blank">Vanity Fair, May 2009</a> thus constitute. Perhaps being topless isn&#8217;t quite the same as being naked, but if so then what of this picture (above) where she appears to have forgotten her clothes altogether?&#8221;</p>
<p>For more on this wonderful shift, check out Fashionising&#8217;s editorial, with tons of links: <strong><a href="http://www.fashionising.com/diary/b--Nudity-and-fashion-who-needs-clothes-1473.html#pictures" target="_blank">Nudity and fashion: who needs clothes?</a></strong></p>
<p>Italy, France, the UK&#8230; <strong>whassup wit dat? Why don&#8217;t I get to live in a grownup country?</strong> You can trace it all back to a very certain aggressive Middle Eastern cult, that currently has some very paranoid fears about other aggressive Middle Eastern cults.</p>
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		<title>Submissions Requested for Saturday&#8217;s New Moon Issue: Chakras&#8230; deadline Thursday!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 12:22:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Kastner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The second chakra is all about sex and creativity so&#8230; here&#8217;s a little 2-minute meditation for your inspiration:

Our first official release is set for the New Moon, Saturday, April 25 and the focus is on Understanding, Experiencing, Balancing and Empowering your Chakras.
You are cordially invited to submit informative, artistic erotica&#8230; articles, short stories, poems, photos, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The <a href="http://healing.about.com/cs/chakras/a/chakra2.htm" target="_blank">second chakra</a> is all about sex and creativity so&#8230; here&#8217;s a little 2-minute meditation for your inspiration:</p>
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<p>Our first official release is set for the New Moon, <strong>Saturday, April 25</strong> and the focus is on <strong>Understanding, Experiencing, Balancing and Empowering your Chakras</strong>.</p>
<p>You are cordially invited to submit informative, artistic erotica&#8230; articles, short stories, poems, photos, audio narratives, art, music, links to your videos. Deadline is the end of the day on Thursday, April 23. Click for <a href="http://sexologie.us/?page_id=51"><strong>Submission Guidelines</strong></a>.</p>
<p>We are also re-emerging on the Internet air waves with a new show on <strong><a href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/sexologie" target="_blank">BlogTalkRadio</a></strong>. Please, let us know if you are interested in being a featured guset.</p>
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		<title>Amara, Shyena and the City of Ten Thousand Buddhas</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 14:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Kastner</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[City of Ten Thousand Buddhas]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[A little more than a hundred miles north of San Francisco in Mendocino County, there is a very unique community located within the town of Talmage, California. In 1974 the Dharma Realm Buddhist Association purchased the grounds and buildings of the former Mendocino State Hospital founded in 1889. The facilities included more than seventy large [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A little more than a hundred miles north of San Francisco in Mendocino County, there is a very unique community located within the town of Talmage, California. In 1974 the <a href="http://www.drba.org/" target="_blank"><strong>Dharma Realm Buddhist Association</strong></a> purchased the grounds and buildings of the former Mendocino State Hospital founded in 1889. The facilities included more than seventy large buildings, three gymnasiums, a fire station, a swimming pool and almost everything else required by a typical small municipality like fire hydrants, an underground water and electrical grid and a central heating and air conditioning plant.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" src="http://www.drba.org/img/vm_01.gif" alt="" width="185" height="135" />Under the leadership and guidance of the <strong>Venerable Master Hsuan Hua</strong>, an international Buddhist community and monastery was established on the 488 acre site. The <a href="http://www.cttbusa.org/" target="_blank"><strong>City of Ten Thousand Buddhas</strong></a> as it is known today, is one of the first Chinese Zen Buddhist temples in the United States, and one of the largest Buddhist communities in the Western Hemisphere.</p>
<p>Into this pious realm, steps our heroes&#8230; <strong>Amara and Shyena</strong>, two westerners, lifelong students of eastern philosophy and yet advocates of the sensual life &#8211; ready to undertake a 7-day retreat, meditating and celebrating <strong>Guan Shi Yin, </strong>the Goddess/God who helps us cultivate compassion.</p>
<p>&#8220;I never imagined I would visit a Buddhist monastery, and to tell the truth, I often felt something too complex or grand in all of it for me,&#8221; Amara explains. &#8220;It took hearing <strong>Guan Yin’s</strong> name to lure me into the Dharma Realm, and the <strong>City of Ten Thousand Buddhas</strong>, after which, perhaps, nothing will ever be quite the same.&#8221;</p>
<p>Read all about her life-changing adventure in <a href="http://nourishingarts.biz/blog/?p=155" target="_blank"><strong>&#8220;How Lucky We Are… About the Guan Yin Retreat</strong></a>.&#8221;</p>
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<p>It turns out that Amara has more secrets to reveal and what better place than at a Buddhist Monastery that was once an insane asylum to come back to one&#8217;s senses.</p>
<p>&#8220;Returning to our room after an entire day of recitation I am dying for a cigarette,&#8221; she reveals. &#8220;Of course there is no smoking permitted within the place, so I must go outside to sneak one. This is day one of seven. I’m thinking, <em>God, this is awful. Ridiculous! I can’t do this here.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Find out how she beat back the <strong>Nicotine Demons</strong> and rekindled her love of film making while you enjoy her latest online video production, a  glimpse within the walls of the <strong>City of Ten Thousand Buddhas</strong> in <strong><a title="Permanent Link to Two Confessions… on the making of this video" rel="bookmark" href="http://nourishingarts.biz/blog/?p=138">&#8220;Two Confessions… on the making of this video</a></strong>.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Labor of Love&#8221; by Cara Muhlhahn</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 16:17:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Kastner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cara Muhlhahn is a certified nurse midwife (CNM) with more than 30 years of experience. She is a graduate of Columbia University&#8217;s school of Nursing, and SUNY Downstate Health Science Centers Midwifery Education Program. She practiced midwifery at Beth Israel Medical Center and Maternity Center, Manhattan&#8217;s first birthing center, before establishing her own private homebirth [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Cara Muhlhahn</strong> is a certified nurse midwife (CNM) with more than 30 years of experience. She is a graduate of Columbia University&#8217;s school of Nursing, and SUNY Downstate Health Science Centers Midwifery Education Program. She practiced midwifery at Beth Israel Medical Center and Maternity Center, Manhattan&#8217;s first birthing center, before establishing her own private homebirth practice in Manhattan in 1996.<br />
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<p>During her career, Muhlhahn has delivered more than 700 babies and has practiced midwifery in New York, Texas, and Oregon. She is the midwife featured in <strong>Ricki Lake</strong>&#8217;s controversial documentary, &#8220;<a href="http://www.thebusinessofbeingborn.com/" target="_blank">The Business of Being Born</a>,&#8221; which provides an insider&#8217;s look at natural childbirth in the home setting, and her expert opinion has been included in articles in The New York Times, Vogue, and Parents Magazine.</p>
<p>Muhlhahn&#8217;s debut memoir, &#8220;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Labor-Love-Midwifes-Cara-Muhlhahn/dp/1427798214/ref=designwise" target="_blank">Labor of Love</a>&#8221; hit bookshelves in December 30, 2008 and includes tales of the homebirth of Muhlhahn&#8217;s son, recounts the formative experiences of her adolescence, and offers readers engaging stories culled from her practice of midwifery. This powerful book chronicles the unconventional decisions she has made to find, then honor her profession.</p>
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		<title>Happy Valentine&#8217;s Day&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 14:30:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Kastner</dc:creator>
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Poetry, candy, flowers&#8230; we&#8217;ll provide the poems in our emerging Poetry section to include the erotic from ancient to modern author/poets.
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<p>Poetry, candy, flowers&#8230; we&#8217;ll provide the poems in our emerging <a href="http://sexologie.us/?cat=13"><strong>Poetry section</strong></a> to include the erotic from ancient to modern author/poets.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;The Distant Moon&#8221; by Rafael Campo</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 13:36:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Kastner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[   I

Admitted to the hospital again.
The second bout of pneumocystis back
In January almost killed him; then,
He'd sworn to us he'd die at home.  He baked
Us cookies, which the student wouldn't eat,
Before he left--the kitchen on 5A
Is small, but serviceable and neat.
He told me stories: Richard Gere was gay
And sleeping with a friend [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<pre>   <strong>I</strong>

Admitted to the hospital again.
The second bout of pneumocystis back
In January almost killed him; then,
He'd sworn to us he'd die at home.  He baked
Us cookies, which the student wouldn't eat,
Before he left--the kitchen on 5A
Is small, but serviceable and neat.
He told me stories: Richard Gere was gay
And sleeping with a friend if his, and AIDS
Was an elaborate conspiracy
Effected by the government.  He stayed
Four months. He lost his sight to CMV.

   <strong>II</strong>

One day, I drew his blood, and while I did
He laughed, and said I was his girlfriend now,
His blood-brother.  "Vampire-slut," he cried,
"You'll make me live forever!" Wrinkled brows
Were all I managed in reply.  I know
I'm drowning in his blood, his purple blood.
I filled my seven tubes; the warmth was slow
To leave them, pressed inside my palm.  I'm sad
Because he doesn't see my face.  Because
I can't identify with him.  I hate
The fact that he's my age, and that across
My skin he's there, my blood-brother, my mate.

   <strong>III</strong>

He said I was too nice, and after all
If Jodie Foster was a lesbian,
Then doctors could be queer.  Residual
Guilts tingled down my spine.  "OK, I'm done,"
I said as I withdrew the needle from
His back, and pressed.  The CSF was clear;
I never answered him.  That spot was framed
In sterile, paper drapes.  He was so near
Death, telling him seemed pointless.  Then, he died.
Unrecognizable to anyone
But me, he left my needles deep inside
His joking heart.  An autopsy was done.

   <strong>IV</strong>

I'd read to him at night. His horoscope,
The New York Times, The Advocate;
Some lines by Richard Howard gave us hope.
A quiet hospital is infinite,
The polished, ice-white floors, the darkened halls
That lead to almost anywhere, to death
Or ghostly, lighted Coke machines.  I call
To him one night, at home, asleep.  His breath,
I dreamed, had filled my lungs--his lips, my lips
Had touched.  I felt as though I'd touched a shrine.
Not disrespectfully, but in some lapse
Of concentration.  In a mirror shines

The distant moon.</pre>
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<p><a href="http://www.poets.org/poet.php/prmPID/183" target="_blank"><strong>Rafael Campo</strong></a> was born in Dover, New Jersey, in 1964. He is the author of several books of poetry, including the forthcoming collection, What the Body Told, which received a Lambda Literary Award&#8230; <a href="http://www.poets.org/poet.php/prmPID/183" target="_blank"><em>more</em></a></p>
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		<title>&#8220;The Mutes&#8221; by Denise Levertov</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 13:19:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stephen Kastner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Those groans men use
passing a woman on the street
or on the steps of the subway
to tell her she is a female
and their flesh knows it,
are they a sort of tune,
an ugly enough song, sung
by a bird with a slit tongue
but meant for music?
Or are they the muffled roaring
of deafmutes trapped in a building that is
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those groans men use<br />
passing a woman on the street<br />
or on the steps of the subway</p>
<p>to tell her she is a female<br />
and their flesh knows it,</p>
<p>are they a sort of tune,<br />
an ugly enough song, sung<br />
by a bird with a slit tongue</p>
<p>but meant for music?</p>
<p>Or are they the muffled roaring<br />
of deafmutes trapped in a building that is<br />
slowly filling with smoke?</p>
<p>Perhaps both.</p>
<p>Such men most often<br />
look as if groan were all they could do,<br />
yet a woman, in spite of herself,</p>
<p>knows it&#8217;s a tribute:<br />
if she were lacking all grace<br />
they&#8217;d pass her in silence:</p>
<p>so it&#8217;s not only to say she&#8217;s<br />
a warm hole. It&#8217;s a word</p>
<p>in grief-language, nothing to do with<br />
primitive, not an ur-language;<br />
language stricken, sickened, cast down</p>
<p>in decrepitude. She wants to<br />
throw the tribute away, dis-<br />
gusted, and can&#8217;t,</p>
<p>it goes on buzzing in her ear,<br />
it changes the pace of her walk,<br />
the torn posters in echoing corridors</p>
<p>spell it out, it<br />
quakes and gnashes as the train comes in.<br />
Her pulse sullenly</p>
<p>had picked up speed,<br />
but the cars slow down and<br />
jar to a stop while her understanding</p>
<p>keeps on translating:<br />
&#8216;Life after life after life goes by</p>
<p>without poetry,<br />
without seemliness,<br />
without love.&#8217;</p>
<div class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 154px"><a href="http://www.poets.org/poet.php/prmPID/41" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.poets.org/images/authors/dleverto.jpg" alt="photo: © David Geier Photography" width="144" height="167" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">photo: © David Geier Photography</p></div>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.poets.org/poet.php/prmPID/41" target="_blank">Denise Levertov</a></strong> was born in Ilford, Essex, England, on October 24, 1923. She went on to publish more than twenty volumes of poetry, four books of prose, and translated three volumes of poetry&#8230; <em><a href="http://www.poets.org/poet.php/prmPID/41" target="_blank">more</a></em></p>
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